Allow me to tell you a couple of things I think.  I believe all people are born with a sin nature.  That the heart is as Jeremiah said: deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?  Jer. 17:9  God sent His Son to die for our sins and to transform us from the inside out.  I believe God through the Holy Spirit cleanses and fills us with the Holy Spirit. I believe we need to remain sensitive to the Holy Spirit all of our lives.

I love the Lord and I love His Church.  My life has been transformed by Him and blessed by His people in ways too numerous to count.  I want to share something that I have been thinking about the last few weeks, and it is something that I ponder daily  I call it two ways:


Choice #1        I can be hard on others and then excuse myself for my failings and shortcomings

Option #2       I can  be easier on others and harder on myself


Choice #1        Criticize everyone whenever they don’t measure up to my standards

Option #2        Pray and ask God to shows me ways to be of help and to be a blessing to people


Choice #1        Talk about others and criticize their lack of spiritual maturity

Option #2        Talk to God and ask Him to bless and help struggling families and friends


Choice #1        Talk about people

Option #2        Talk to people


Choice #1        Believe by avoiding things and following rules I have become a child of God

Option #2        Remember I was saved by Grace.  I did not reform myself.  Christ transformed me


Choice #1        People are stupid and they need me to point their stupidity out to them

Option #2        Everyone I meet is going through something and needs an understanding friend


Choice #1        People need to be reminded of truth and that all will answer to God (true)

Option #2        I need to be reminded of truth and that I will answer to God (also true)


Choice #1        We are called to rebuke, correct and discipline…2Tim 4:2

Option #2        Yes and I believe Paul was speaking about the church. What rebuking, correcting and training do I need today?


Choice #1        I can feel smug and self-righteous, grateful that I am not like all of those people

Option #2        I can be broken over the many people who have never heard that God loves them


Choice #1        I can point out the problem(s)

Option #2        I can ask God to allow me to be a part of the solution

I can hear you.  You are a compromiser!  You have gone soft!   But if holiness does anything for us, it ought to make us more sensitive to the heart of the Father, more loving, caring and compassionate. Holiness ought to be less about us and more about Him.  Holiness will never glorify a person; the Holy Spirit brings glory to Christ.

Have I succeeded always?  No!  But the Holy Spirit, the umpire of my heart, convicts and challenges me to Christlikeness. He has made me go back to people and apologize for my spirit, and attitude on several occasions. Have you had to go to someone and apologize and ask their forgiveness?  Have you been convicted of something in your life in the last month?  To be baptized with the Holy Spirit is to be immersed into His heart and Love.  We cannot live 1 Corinthians 13 without the help of the Holy Spirit.  I am suspicious of anyone who would try to tell me that they never need to apologize to anyone.  You are not holy, rather you are delusional!

Friends it has been a real challenge reading these statements every day in prayer and asking God to show me how to be a better example of His love and compassion.










3 Thoughts to “Two ways to live, talk and live!”

  1. darryl bogatay

    Great Blog – Great Truths – Great Reminders – Great Instructive Options!

  2. Aaron Baker

    This is good! Thanks Dr. Blake–on the 6th anniversary of your election as DS!!!

    1. I remember six years ago very well. Thanks Aaron God bless you thanks for being my firend

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